It is safe to be optimistic about your dreams coming to fruition! In fact, it is vital to the process that you have complete faith that they are in fact manifesting, even if they do not seem to be, or even if you are not feeling in control of the way that they are manifesting. Know that the Universe has taken over for now, and that things will unfold in an amazing new way. You have nothing to worry about, except for your thoughts, beliefs and emotions, of course.
What does it mean to get out of your own way? It means that you must not limit your true potential by looking through the lens of past experience and preparing yourself for the worst case scenario. This is a bad habit we have, we believe that we must prepare ourselves for everything going wrong. We get in our own way when we focus our energies on conjuring up in our minds all the ways that we can possibly imagine things going sideways. What a total waste of energy! Imagine what we could accomplish if we used this very same energy imagining all the wonderful things that could happen. If we visualized all the ways our minds could be blown, and approached our dreams with enthusiasm and curiosity.
To expedite the manifestation of your dreams, dream them up in bright detail. Blow life into them daily through every exhale. Love them into existence. And always know that the Universe has your back.